There is so much fuss about how love ruins your life. But my friend, have you ever loved someone before? Not just for saying, but meaning it. Not just loving the feeling of being taken care of, but being in love with someone.
People are so afraid after their horrible breakup or their friend’s terrifying breakup that they would rather be single and dwell on the fact that they can’t find love.
They put on their guards as soon as they hear something remotely related to love, escape the conversation, and will even escape the universe if there was a way for that.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not asking you to be in a “relationship” with anyone and love them. Respect yourself enough to find the right person. When you find them, hold onto them real tight.
I feel you can’t really live without that feeling of love. You have to love someone to be alive. Starting from yourself and then as many people as possible.
Love is never limited. Time might be. But love, never.
I was thinking about the relationship between the Sun and the Earth.
The Sun loves The Earth beyond anything. He let it grow and the life on it prosper.
It helps the winds to blow, it helps the plants to grow, it let the oceans to flow, let the people glow.
Yet, gives the Earth the space she needs. The Sun knows, that getting any closer to the Earth will make the Earth lose its very nature. It will hinder the growth, create havoc and will cease the life from her.
To me, love is about being in an uncalled relation, an unseen connection, invisible revolution around each other and unprecedented trust on each other. You must wish for the other person’s prosperity and well being and give ample space for each other to bloom and give the necessary tools to help them grow.
When you love a flower, you water it daily and see it bloom. You don’t pluck it.
In the same way, we need to help the people we love in becoming more of what they need to be and help them towards realising their destiny.
Love should be as free as the wind, which can blow anywhere it wants and is eternal. And if the wind forgets that the world is its canvas, love should step up and rebuild that belief.
Love isn’t a slave of time. It is a free man.
You don’t need a lifetime to love someone. You can create a lifetime of memories in a limited amount of time, with love.
Love is the energy we all crave.
Love is about being open to possibilities and being ready to accept the changes your loved one shall go through to become what he always wanted to become.
If you think that no one loves you then you need to dig deeper. Because what I have experienced in this small amount of time is that you are always loved in one way or the other. Sometimes, you just have to remove your shades of insecurities and unrealistic expectations and look beyond it to find it.
But believe me, there is always love in abundance for everyone.
I hope you can find the people who love you. Take out some time to tell them how important they are to you. It will nourish your love and will be like a tonic for future improvement.
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